WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH

When the going gets tough, the tough take it easy. Not that we give up, or play dead, but that we relax into facing adversity with confidence and poise. This is what is meant by being a warrior.   Life has many challenges.  We would do well to recognize these and relax into them.  The […]





WHEN ENOUGH IS ENOUGH

A BUDDHIST CONTEMPLATION ON THE MIDDLE WAY   When I was a child, it was common for fathers to keep long hours at work or travel away from home. The dad’s were swimming upstream to compete in a society making its long slide away from the warmth of the family to the insatiable urges of […]


WAKING UP TO A NEW DAY

WELCOMING YOUR BRAIN TO THE NEW YEAR! I am offering free new year’s meditation and life coaching sessions to those who need support for sanity and a gentle voice defining and orienting toward your vision.  ________________________   WAKING UP TO A NEW DAY Back in the 70′, meditation master Chogyam Trungpa would begin his talks […]


UNPACKING THE REACTION

UNPACKING THE REACTION: Deconstructing Shenpa I am writing this on boxing day.  In some traditions, today is the day set aside to unpack the last of the holiday presents and remove the boxes, or perhaps repack the boxes and return the gifts.  In any event, I thought it an appropriate time to discuss opening the […]



BECOMING YOUR BEST NON-SELF

Ego is a term used to indicate an aspect of our psychology that we identify as “me”.  However, on closer inspection, there seem to be a number of “me’s” that we employ – and believe – depending on our circumstance. There is the me that I find at work, the me that I feel when […]


Developing A Healthy Self-Regard

Developing A Healthy Self-Regard is not Egotism. Self-love and self-encouragement are so important to our physical, mental, and emotional wellbeing. Yet, the question of what it is to love oneself is not always clear. Is it giving in to the ½ gallon of ice cream, or making it to the gym?  And I think many […]